So I realized that since I am all all the way over here on the East side away from my family, not many people are in the know on what my wedding plans are looking like right now. So, I thought I would post an update on what I have planned so far on the wedding front!
Here are the things that have been decided
and checked off of my to-do list:
Venue: As most of you probably know, we'll have the ceremony and reception at the Kitsap Conference Center, which is located in a beautiful place right next to the Bremerton Ferry.

I'm very glad that we aren't having the reception at a separate site, and am happy that things like catering are done by the same place. Even though my options are limited I guess by having it all from the same venue, it is one less thing for me to actually decide.
Music: Thank goodness for my musical family! My dad's swing band, Swing Fever, will provide the dance tunes for the reception. I'm so fortunate to have this as an option! I'm also having family friend and father of one of my bridesmaids play piano for the ceremony itself. He's an exceptional pianist, and graduated from the University of Washington studying music himself!
Photographer: We booked
Yuen Lui for our wedding photography! I was slightly agonizing over this one because photography can be one of the most expensive parts of the wedding, but then again, it will be the longest lasting, so it had better be good! I almost caved and went with this super cheap vendor that gave me a pamphlet at the Seattle Wedding Show, but thanks to some level-headed advice from the future brother and sister-in-law, I decided to stay away from amateur wedding photos. Luckily for me, I got a pretty sweet deal with Yuen Lui after all, so it was a win-win for us!
The Dress: Also thanks to the Seattle Wedding Show, my gown is one less thing for me to worry about finding. It is gorgeous, and no, sorry, I'm not posting a pic here. Patrick is not allowed to see yet. (He's pretty sure I'm making up these rules.)
I looked into getting it fitted once I'm over in the area (just over a week before the wedding), so first I called the lady who sold me the dress. Unfortunately, she sounded pretty uncertain that a week and two days would be enough time to get it fitted. She literally told me, "well I guess you can risk it..." Seriously? Not something you tell a bride. Even non-crazy brides like myself.
So, I called some seamstress places in Bremerton, and there's one right by my sister's place and the wedding venue that said they could get it turned around in 3 days, plus it was cheaper, so phewf. Not that I really need that much done to it- it fit pretty well originally, but it'll look that much better if it fits me just right. I'm also going to see if they can put a bustle on it, or at least something so I can pick up the train and not trip over it all day- it is a pretty long train.
The Invites: Already (mostly) sent out, the invites I threw together myself turned out pretty well. I used a
Fiskars border puncher dealy (the "All A-Fleur" one) to make a pretty edge on the bottom of a half sheet of Celery colored parchment paper.

The invite text was printed onto clear vellum, tied together with a silver ribbon. Directions were printed on shiny silver card stock, and the RSVP and Registry info was all tucked inside an ivory colored envelope, sealed with silver wax with an M seal. Still waiting on some addresses from Patrick to finish sending them out, but they're all made and ready to go. Oh, and I hand wrote the addresses, which I'm proud of, even though my handwriting isn't super great.
The Bridesmaids' Dresses: This was just decided yesterday! The girls got together yesterday and tried on dresses and decided on this one from J Crew. My Momma will have some altering to do it sounds like, but I think they are happy about it. That's the best part- I want my Bridesmaids to be comfortable and happy! I hope they don't hate me for making them wear green!! hahahaha. My MOH and sister, posing in the selected dress:Even though it would have been a fine option, I've decided to scratch the original dresses. They don't go with my dress and I was getting some vibes that the bridesmaids weren't super enamored with them anymore either. Instead, I've asked the BMaids to get a black, knee length dress of their choice, and we'll coordinate them with a matching green sash. I'll keep Hilm's pic in the old dress tho cause it's cute:
The Flower Girl's Dress: My future niece Rylan is going to be the most adorable little flower girl ever. To help make her even cuter, my wonderful madre is going to be making her dress! My mom already picked out the pattern and fabric. The dress will look something like this, in ivory and light green (matching my dress!):

And now, things that I am in the process of figuring out: (advice/input totally welcome!!)
The Flowers: I am going with
costco.com. I've heard nothing but great things online and from people that I actually know who used them. Since I'm not exactly a pro flower arranger, I'm making it easy on myself and will only have 2 flower types. At least that's what I'm thinking right now. There'll be basically all
Calla Lilies (gorgeous, huge, elegant, and sturdy),

and then I'll be getting a bunch of stems of "fillers and greens" that will embellish the centerpieces.

I really have no clue how many I'll need- the Calla Lilies are pretty large flowers, but I'm not sure how many it will take to make a full looking bouquet on their own. Right now I'm planning on buying 150 stems of Calla Lilies, and 255 stems of "fillers and greens." I'll use just Calla Lilies in the bridesmaids' and my bouquets (I'm guestimating 10 stems for each of the four bridesmaids, and 20 for mine). I'll use Calla Lilies along with the greens for along the aisle at the ceremony and the centerpieces on each table at the reception (12 tables is the estimate right now). I'm not sure about the boutonnieres for the gentlemen yet, but I think I'll just pick up some white roses from the store, add some of the "fillers and greens," and vooalah, done. BTW, the "fillers and greens" are L
eather Leaf, Baby Eucalyptus, Ruscus, and Baby's Breath. If anyone out there knows whether that sounds like a decent amount of foliage or not, input is appreciated!
Also in the flower category, I'm figuring out the petal options. I'll have an adorable little flower girl to throw petals, and depending on how many I decide to get, I might use them to decorate the tables at the reception too. I'm looking into these freeze dried petals at
this place.

The other option is to just get some fabric ones, which would probably be just fine too, but I probably wouldn't put them on the reception tables, cause they won't be as pretty.
I also figured out a GOLDEN little gem for the centerpieces.
The Dollar Tree. Sooooo great. There's a lot of stuff for weddings there actually, but unfortunately you don't get much choice on quantity, and so far the vases were the only things that came in the amount that I could actually use.

These little beauts are a goodly sized vase which will accommodate the equally substantive Calla Lilies. Originally I was going to go for
these vases from CB2 since they seemed cheap and still cool looking. However, it would only hold like one stem (which might have actually been a better idea: less flowers=less$$$) but I decided it would just look too puny.
Last flower detail: I'm planning on buying some green ribbon to adorn the cute li'l vases and "tie" in (heheh) the green theme.
Favors: I have no idea what the favors should be. However, to hold them, I think I'm going with a simple cello bag
here, tied with one of the many green ribbons that will show up at the wedding.

I'll also have the usual bubbles available to send me and Patrick on our "marry" way (I am so awesome).

The Dollar Tree has bubbles for much cheaper, but you have to buy a zillion if you buy online, and since each dollar store's inventory varies, I'm just going to get
these ones from JoAnn Fabrics. They are cooler looking anyway.
Cake: Not super sure on this one yet. Probably will go with one of these Safeway wedding cakes, but I still need to find out if it's a better idea to get just a tiny wedding cake for pictures and to feed the bridal party and then a sheet cake for the guests, or if it's not too unreasonable to just get one wedding cake. (I also have a scheme brewing for a surprise groom's cake!!! We'll see if it comes together.) I've officially decided on going with Safeway for the wedding cake. There is one right nearby and the price is right. The one I'm getting is below. (I also talked to them about my little scheme for the groom's cake and it's a go! Won't be that big of a deal, but I am excited.)

Other random ideas that I'm hatching:
Photo Booth: I am going to steal
this idea for a fun/cool/entertaining thing for the guests to do during the reception and us to enjoy for years afterwards! Another blog about a diy photobooth is
here. There are vendors that try to sell you a "photo booth" that the guests can have fun with, but they are a little ridiculous in the pricing. So the idea here is to set it up yourself! The guests won't get the instant gratification of having and holding the little goofy image of themselves immediately, but it still sounds like it'd be fun.
Basically, the plan is that I will have my dad rig up a tripod
and remote (they don't actually make those for my camera, so it'll just be a timer) for my digital camera, set up a sheet of fabric for a backdrop, and have a box of props for the guests to use or not, and have a card with directions on how to use the
remote timer. Then, the guests have at it and do their own little photo shoot. I'm planning on giving everyone a URL to a website to visit after the wedding which I'll upload the pics to so that they'll get to see their handiwork, but I haven't figured that one out yet.
That's about it in terms of what's going on in my little pea brain about the wedding. Some other stuff here and there, but those are the main decisions so far.